Wee Hob turned 13 in April. It's probably worth noting that he has spent significant time in the residential treatment and foster care systems for mental health and abuse issues, (from age 5-9) and I only got him back 3 and 1/2 years ago. And I do love him, but I think because of all I went through to get him back I am too quick to forgive and excuse. I'm seeing now that's a bad thing. I think at this point a good bit of healthy discomfort and shame will do him a world of good.

Thanks for your support and prayers.